Life is Short and Love is Long

The rest of life is precious and unpredictable, don’t let the regrets be too long.


Be Open-minded

Be not afraid. Do your best. Keep doing and stop worrying about results.

When you feel lost, revisit your list of unaccomplished goals.

Regular review helps us preserve existing knowledge and gain new insights.

Be honest with yourself and don’t struggle. Keep a real record of your life, use real data for analysis, decision making, and continuous improvement.

Be Positive

Get out and get some exercise! You’ll be back in full spirit!
Focus right now! You’ll experience the happiness of flow!
Keep it tidy and clean! You’ll feel easeful and clear!

Courage

Overthinking only creates problems, action provides answers.

No hurry, no fear, no shame.

Be Reliable

Accept the challenge, absorb the pressure, assume the responsibility.
Study deeply, seek counsel, embrace trial and error.
Answer every call, deliver every promise, offer every update.

Choices

Reasoning isn’t the ultimate solution to problems, showing love is.

Character and temper hinge on perspective. A single lens breeds stubbornness, impatience, and narrow-mindedness, while multiple lenses cultivate wisdom, calm, and inclusiveness.

When falling into bad emotions, the wisest and most valuable choice is to observe inner emotional changes, do more behaviors that are conducive to good emotions, and reduce unnecessary emotional consumption to maintain a positive mental state.

Love and Happiness

When parents are alive, we know where we came from.
When parents are gone, the only way we have left in our life towards the death.

Love my parents, love my wife’s parents.
Love my wife, love our children.
Love myself, love our relatives and friends.